My advice for newly-weds and those still “figuring it out.”

Don’t keep secrets – always be honest! Many of you have probably heard the saying, “It is better to deliver a small lie than a painful truth.” No!  A lie, no matter how small, is still a lie!  Always be honest.  Brian and I committed, even while we were courting, to always be honest with…

Are you preparing for marriage?

What does “it’s worth the wait” even mean? Have I mentioned that sex is amazing?  It is so, totally, worth that wait.  I was told this my entire life, but never really understood why, or what it meant.  Does it mean that that sex is 100 times better after the marriage vows are said?  No,…

Secrets to a great sex life

Sex is different for husbands and wives  You have probably heard it said that a man feels loved when he gets sex, and a woman has sex to feel loved.  I believe this to be, more or less, true.  A man feels the most loved when he has sex – if his wife satisfies him,…

Why is pre-marital sex wrong?

Why does God say “no” to pre-marital sex? Honestly, pre-marital sex is just not worth it.  Do not forfeit the entirety of God’s plan for you for a few minutes of temporary pleasure.  But instead, wait for your future spouse, where you will have a lifetime full of love, intimacy, and happiness. I cannot say…

What do you believe about sex?

God loves sex! Yes, that may sound odd, but honestly, let’s face it.  He created it in its entirety.  He imagined it and planned it.  Sex is truly the greatest gift God has given mankind – and His design was to give it to a husband and his new wife.  Sex between a loving husband…

Straight talk about sex

As a young married woman, I believe I can finally step out and discuss this most intimate subject; one that has, among others, been largely on my mind.  Not because I am some pervert, but because I am a loving wife who adores her husband.  And because I am so tired of the Church not…

What’s your ‘big yes’?

A few days ago, Brian and I celebrated our four-month anniversary. As most newly-weds believe, we thought that we were invincible and that the stories we heard from “old married couples” would never apply to us:  we will never grow out of touch, we will never lose connection, we will never grow distant, we will…